柔 · yawara
Notes from the mat.
I started jiu-jitsu, and I am bad at it. This is where I write down what I am learning while it is still new enough to see clearly.
Begin here
Seven posts, in order, for your first weeks on the mat.
- What is Brazilian jiu-jitsu? A plain guide for beginners A grappling art of control and submission, trained by rolling. What a class is, how it differs from judo and jūjutsu, and what a beginner does next.
- Your first jiu-jitsu class: what actually happens A play-by-play of a first BJJ class from someone who just had one. What to expect, what nobody tells you, and the one thing to remember.
- What to wear to your first jiu-jitsu class No, you do not need a gi yet. What to actually wear to a trial BJJ class, what a gi is, and what to buy only after you commit.
- How to tie your jiu-jitsu belt (and why it keeps coming off) The standard way to tie a BJJ belt, step by step in plain words, why it unties itself mid-roll, and why nobody minds.
- The words you'll hear on the mat: a beginner's glossary Guard, mount, sweep, tap, oss. The small dictionary of jiu-jitsu words I needed in week one, in plain English.
- Tapping is the curriculum What tapping means in BJJ, when to tap, and why the people who tap most in their first year learn fastest.
- How often should a brand-new white belt train? Two to three classes a week is the honest answer for most adult beginners. The reasoning, the recovery math, and the trap of week-one enthusiasm.
- Too old, too unfit, too late? Starting jiu-jitsu as an adult You are not too old to start BJJ and you do not need to get in shape first. What the mat actually asks of a new adult beginner.
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The name
柔, yawara, is the old Japanese word for the gentle art, older than judo. This site walks the small path of learning it from zero.
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